Sam from Cocos

In this episode of Sex With Sam, Sam talks New Zealand's "eroded and erased" lesbian history with Dr Miriam Saphira of Auckland's The Charlotte Trust Museum.

Sam meets Matt, a gay farmer who lifts the lid on his encounters with closeted gay men of rural New Zealand.

Our sexpert Sam takes a crash course in mindful self love with tantra coach Natalie Z from Auckland's Blue Lotus Sanctuary.